In PMM we have an auto discover mechanism which will auto discover the RDS instance while using PMM add instance option from grafana UI.
PMM Settings - > Add Remote RDS Instance
Current version: 2.32.0
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Basically , IAM role should use assume role and discover all the instance from all the accounts.
Only discover the instance which is coming under the account where PMM server hosted.
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